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Month: April 2025

April 2025

Mediation Mondays: Building a Parenting Plan That Actually Works

Navigating co-parenting after a separation or divorce can be emotionally charged and complex, especially when children are involved. One of the most effective tools for easing this transition is mediation—a process that brings both parents to the table with a neutral third party to create a parenting plan that reflects the unique needs of their family. Unlike court-imposed decisions, mediation encourages collaboration and communication, allowing parents to have a say in the outcome while prioritizing their child’s well-being. A major advantage of mediation is its flexibility. Parenting plans developed through mediation are not one-size-fits-all; they’re tailored to a family’s specific
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Michaela’s Special Story

April is World Autism Month. To learn more, click HERE. Michaela has been a paralegal at Koenig|Dunne for over 3 years.  Michaela is a divorced mom to Grace (16) and Sophia (14).  This is her story as told to me. I knew the minute she was born she was special.  My Sophia with her dark hair and those large expressive eyes I could get lost in for a lifetime. Before she was born I wondered how I could love her as much I loved her older sister, Grace.  Grace had captured my whole entire heart for the two years before
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Mediation Mondays: The Emotional Side of Mediation

Mediation Mondays: The Emotional Side of Mediation When people think about divorce mediation, they usually focus on the legal and financial logistics—but there’s another side that’s just as important: the emotional one. At its heart, mediation is more than just negotiating terms—it’s about navigating a major life change with as much clarity and care as possible. That’s why understanding and addressing the emotional side of the process is key to making mediation successful. Why Emotions Matter in Mediation Divorce is a deeply personal and emotional experience. It’s normal for feelings like grief, anger, fear, or guilt to show up in
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Casserole Care

I thought it was heat rash when the red prickly, itchy bumps appeared.  Then the pain set in and my instincts told me otherwise.  The doctor took one look and resolutely said, “Shingles.”  “Adult chicken pox?” I asked.  “At your age the only explanation is that it is stress induced,” he looked at me with what felt like a smidge of silent judgment.  I was on Google as soon as I walked in the door to discern how long this bout would last, my mind already racing to the commitments I had the following work week and how was I
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Mediation Mondays: Who Benefits Most?

Mediation is an effective conflict resolution tool that benefits individuals who need to preserve relationships while finding fair solutions. Divorcing couples, for example, often turn to mediation to navigate the complexities of asset division, custody arrangements, and emotional challenges. By facilitating open communication, mediation allows both parties to express their needs and reach mutually agreeable solutions, reducing the stress and financial burden associated with litigation.  Co-parents also find mediation particularly beneficial as they work to develop parenting plans that prioritize their children’s well-being. Unlike courtroom battles, mediation fosters collaboration and helps parents establish healthy communication strategies for the future. This
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Words Well Written

“I need to get this out so you can read it and know where I’ve been, where I’m at now, and where I want to be.” My writing partner recently sent me some draft work to “review and comment” for him. He is writing from a place of self-discovery and his writing is autobiographical in nature.  He is writing difficult and vulnerable memories. At the end of his pages was a letter to his spouse.  I wasn’t sure if I was meant to read it or not, but I knew it no doubt held a deeper level of the hard work he was
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