Category: Mediation Mondays

Divorce is not just a legal process—it’s an emotional one. When you’re navigating the uncertainty of separation, your mental health plays a vital role in how you show up in mediation. Stress, grief, anxiety, or even trauma can make it difficult to communicate clearly, make decisions, or advocate for your needs. Acknowledging this emotional weight isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s a crucial step in preparing for a successful and sustainable resolution. A trauma-informed mediation process recognizes that people arrive with unique histories, emotional states, and coping mechanisms. Skilled mediators create environments that are calm, respectful, and paced appropriately. This

When most people hear the word mediation, they think of divorce. But for many families, the need for clear communication and problem-solving doesn’t end when the papers are signed. Co-parenting is an ongoing relationship—one that grows and changes over time. Whether it’s adjusting to a new school schedule, introducing new partners, or rethinking summer vacation plans, life doesn’t stay still—and neither should your parenting plan. Mediation offers a safe, neutral space for co-parents to revisit their agreements and respond to life’s inevitable changes. It’s often less adversarial, faster, and more cost-effective than returning to court. More importantly, it allows parents

June is Pride Month—a time to celebrate love in all its forms and affirm the dignity of LGBTQ+ individuals and families. For LGBTQ+ couples navigating divorce or separation, traditional legal systems have not always felt inclusive or affirming. Mediation offers a different path: one rooted in respect, understanding, and the recognition that every family is unique. It creates space for thoughtful conversations and customized solutions, whether about parenting, finances, or future plans. At Koenig|Dunne, we’ve long been at the forefront of advocating for LGBTQ+ couples and families. We understand the nuances that may come with dissolving a partnership—especially in a

When facing a legal dispute, it’s natural to picture the courtroom: lawyers at the ready, a judge presiding, and the tension of a formal process. But what many people don’t realize is that this path often comes with a hefty emotional and financial price tag. Court cases can drag on for months or even years, with layers of legal fees, time off work, and the mental strain of public proceedings. The structure can feel overwhelming—and for some, unsustainable. Mediation offers a different route. It’s typically quicker, more collaborative, and less financially draining than traditional litigation. Instead of being locked in

Talking to Your Children About DivorceDivorce is a life-changing event not just for parents, but especially for children. It’s important to speak with your kids in an age-appropriate, honest, and compassionate way. Let them know that the divorce is not their fault, and avoid putting them in the middle of adult issues. Children need reassurance that they are still loved and supported by both parents, even if the family dynamic is changing. Starting this conversation with empathy and clarity helps ease fear and confusion. How Mediation Helps Center the ChildMediation provides a structured and neutral environment where parents can focus

Mediation can be a relief—it means you’ve reached a mutual agreement and avoided a lengthy court battle. But once the session ends, many clients ask, “What now?” The next step is finalizing the paperwork. Depending on your situation, this might include a Memorandum of Understanding (MOU), Parenting Plan, or a formal settlement agreement. These documents should accurately reflect what was agreed upon in mediation, and it’s often wise to have them reviewed—or drafted—by an attorney to ensure they’re legally sound. Adjusting Agreements When Life Changes Even the best agreements might need tweaking over time. Life changes—like new jobs, relocations, or

Mediation Isn’t Just for the Amicable Many people assume that mediation only works for couples who still get along or communicate easily. In reality, some of the most successful mediation outcomes happen between high-conflict couples. Mediation isn’t about being friends — it’s about finding a structured, supported way to reach agreements without dragging everything into a courtroom. With a skilled mediator, even couples who can barely be in the same room can find a process that feels safer, more manageable, and ultimately more productive than litigation. The Right Support Makes All the Difference High-conflict couples often need a mediator who

Navigating co-parenting after a separation or divorce can be emotionally charged and complex, especially when children are involved. One of the most effective tools for easing this transition is mediation—a process that brings both parents to the table with a neutral third party to create a parenting plan that reflects the unique needs of their family. Unlike court-imposed decisions, mediation encourages collaboration and communication, allowing parents to have a say in the outcome while prioritizing their child’s well-being. A major advantage of mediation is its flexibility. Parenting plans developed through mediation are not one-size-fits-all; they’re tailored to a family’s specific