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Category: Divorce Made Simple

This blog provides practical information on the legal process of divorce. Our attorneys break down the divorce process in a way that is easy to understand.

Divorce Made Simple

This blog provides practical information on the legal process of divorce. Our attorneys break down the divorce process in a way that is easy to understand.

Mediation Mondays: Is Mediation Still an Option If We Don’t Get Along?

Mediation Isn’t Just for the Amicable Many people assume that mediation only works for couples who still get along or communicate easily. In reality, some of the most successful mediation outcomes happen between high-conflict couples. Mediation isn’t about being friends — it’s about finding a structured, supported way to reach agreements without dragging everything into a courtroom. With a skilled mediator, even couples who can barely be in the same room can find a process that feels safer, more manageable, and ultimately more productive than litigation. The Right Support Makes All the Difference High-conflict couples often need a mediator who
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Mediation Mondays: Building a Parenting Plan That Actually Works

Navigating co-parenting after a separation or divorce can be emotionally charged and complex, especially when children are involved. One of the most effective tools for easing this transition is mediation—a process that brings both parents to the table with a neutral third party to create a parenting plan that reflects the unique needs of their family. Unlike court-imposed decisions, mediation encourages collaboration and communication, allowing parents to have a say in the outcome while prioritizing their child’s well-being. A major advantage of mediation is its flexibility. Parenting plans developed through mediation are not one-size-fits-all; they’re tailored to a family’s specific
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Mediation Mondays: The Emotional Side of Mediation

Mediation Mondays: The Emotional Side of Mediation When people think about divorce mediation, they usually focus on the legal and financial logistics—but there’s another side that’s just as important: the emotional one. At its heart, mediation is more than just negotiating terms—it’s about navigating a major life change with as much clarity and care as possible. That’s why understanding and addressing the emotional side of the process is key to making mediation successful. Why Emotions Matter in Mediation Divorce is a deeply personal and emotional experience. It’s normal for feelings like grief, anger, fear, or guilt to show up in
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Mediation Mondays: Who Benefits Most?

Mediation is an effective conflict resolution tool that benefits individuals who need to preserve relationships while finding fair solutions. Divorcing couples, for example, often turn to mediation to navigate the complexities of asset division, custody arrangements, and emotional challenges. By facilitating open communication, mediation allows both parties to express their needs and reach mutually agreeable solutions, reducing the stress and financial burden associated with litigation.  Co-parents also find mediation particularly beneficial as they work to develop parenting plans that prioritize their children’s well-being. Unlike courtroom battles, mediation fosters collaboration and helps parents establish healthy communication strategies for the future. This
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Mediation Mondays: Success Stories from Mediation

Divorce is never easy, but for Jane* and Dave*, finding a peaceful resolution was their top priority. After years of marriage, they knew they needed to separate, but they also wanted to avoid the stress, cost, and hostility of a court battle. That’s when they turned to mediation. In our first session, emotions ran high, and communication was strained. However, through guided discussions and structured problem-solving, we helped them focus on their shared goals—particularly co-parenting of their two children, fairly dividing their assets, and maintaining a respectful relationship toward each other. Over the course of 2 sessions, we tackled difficult
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Mediation Mondays: How to Prepare for Divorce Mediation

Divorce mediation can be an emotional and complex process, but proper preparation can make it more manageable. Whether you’re hoping for a peaceful resolution or simply want to avoid unnecessary stress, focusing on three key areas—gathering financial documents, identifying priorities, and staying open-minded—can set you up for success. 1. Gather Your Financial Documents One of the most important steps in mediation is having a clear understanding of your financial situation. Collect important documents such as: Having these documents ready will help ensure that discussions around asset division, child support, and alimony are based on accurate information, reducing delays and potential
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Mediation Mondays: Myth vs. Reality

Divorce mediation in Nebraska offers couples a way to resolve their differences without the stress and expense of a drawn-out courtroom battle. However, misconceptions about the process often lead people to believe it only works for certain couples or that it’s a quick fix for complex issues. In this blog, we’ll debunk common myths about divorce mediation and shed light on what it really involves. Myth 1: Divorce Mediation Only Works for Amicable Couples One of the most common misconceptions about divorce mediation is that it only works for couples who are already on good terms. In reality, mediation is
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Do NOT Do These 10 Things When You Divorce

Divorce is a time of conflicting emotions — anger, sadness, and even relief.  Typically, emotions are all over the place, which can make it difficult to make good decisions about issues that will likely have an impact on your life long after the divorce is over. The things you should be doing during a divorce — taking care of yourself and your children, planning for a new financial future, etc. — you probably already know about.  But there are also some important things you should NOT be doing during a divorce that could harm your case.  Here are 10 of
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Will My Child Have a Say?

During your divorce, hard decisions regarding your children are made. For example, where will they live? How often will they see each parent?  The paramount concern in any decision regarding custody, parenting time, or other child-related issues is what is in the minor child’s best interests. But what happens when your child expresses a preference regarding who to live with? Nebraska, unlike some other states, does not allow a child to choose who to live with. Rather, the court may consider the well-reasoned preferences of a child, at any age. Nebraska law provides that your child’s preference regarding custody will
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How to Successfully Co-Parent with a High-Conflict Ex

If you endured a high-conflict marriage and a high-conflict divorce, chances are you will be facing many of the same challenges when it comes to co-parenting with your ex. Here are some tips on how to successfully co-parent with a high-conflict ex: Control your reactions. Ongoing conflict between two people is pretty much a product of habit. To keep peace in your co-parented family, you need to break this habit. First, realize you only have control over you, so work on your communication skills by remembering to take the high road, no matter how nasty your ex may get on
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