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Category: Divorce Made Simple

This blog provides practical information on the legal process of divorce. Our attorneys break down the divorce process in a way that is easy to understand.

Divorce Made Simple

This blog provides practical information on the legal process of divorce. Our attorneys break down the divorce process in a way that is easy to understand.

Mediation Mondays: Why Mediation Works Better Than Court for Busy Professionals

For professionals juggling demanding schedules, deadlines, and responsibilities, the thought of adding a legal battle to the calendar can feel overwhelming. Traditional litigation often involves rigid court dates, prolonged timelines, and frequent interruptions to your workday. Mediation offers an alternative that respects your time, your wallet, and your need for efficiency. One of the greatest advantages of mediation is flexibility. Sessions can often be scheduled outside of traditional court hours, including evenings or virtual meetings. This means no scrambling to clear a full day to sit in a courthouse or missing critical moments at work. Mediation works on your time,
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Mediation Mondays: Putting Kids First Without Putting Parents Last

When parents make the difficult decision to separate or divorce, their first thought is often: How will this affect our children? Child-centered mediation is designed with this concern in mind. It focuses on creating parenting plans and agreements that protect children’s emotional stability, reduce exposure to conflict, and ensure continuity in their routines and relationships. Mediation allows parents to work together—rather than against each other—to craft solutions that meet their children’s needs with care and intention. Still, prioritizing the best interests of your children doesn’t mean losing sight of your own voice. In child-centered mediation, both parents are encouraged to
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4 Reasons to Choose An Uncontested Divorce in Nebraska

Divorce is a life-changing decision, but how you go through it matters just as much as the decision itself. If you and your spouse are ready to part ways and can agree on the key terms, Koenig|Dunne can help you with an uncontested flat fee divorce. Unlike a contested divorce, which can be long, expensive, and emotionally exhausting, an uncontested divorce allows you to separate amicably, efficiently, and affordably—with far less stress. 1. Flat Fee Billing: Save Money on Legal Fees One of the biggest advantages of an uncontested divorce is the significant cost savings. When both spouses agree on
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Mediation Mondays: How Your Emotional Wellbeing Impacts the Process

Divorce is not just a legal process—it’s an emotional one. When you’re navigating the uncertainty of separation, your mental health plays a vital role in how you show up in mediation. Stress, grief, anxiety, or even trauma can make it difficult to communicate clearly, make decisions, or advocate for your needs. Acknowledging this emotional weight isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s a crucial step in preparing for a successful and sustainable resolution. A trauma-informed mediation process recognizes that people arrive with unique histories, emotional states, and coping mechanisms. Skilled mediators create environments that are calm, respectful, and paced appropriately. This
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Mediation Mondays: Beyond Divorce

When most people hear the word mediation, they think of divorce. But for many families, the need for clear communication and problem-solving doesn’t end when the papers are signed. Co-parenting is an ongoing relationship—one that grows and changes over time. Whether it’s adjusting to a new school schedule, introducing new partners, or rethinking summer vacation plans, life doesn’t stay still—and neither should your parenting plan. Mediation offers a safe, neutral space for co-parents to revisit their agreements and respond to life’s inevitable changes. It’s often less adversarial, faster, and more cost-effective than returning to court. More importantly, it allows parents
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Mediation Mondays: Mediation for LGBTQ+ Couples

June is Pride Month—a time to celebrate love in all its forms and affirm the dignity of LGBTQ+ individuals and families. For LGBTQ+ couples navigating divorce or separation, traditional legal systems have not always felt inclusive or affirming. Mediation offers a different path: one rooted in respect, understanding, and the recognition that every family is unique. It creates space for thoughtful conversations and customized solutions, whether about parenting, finances, or future plans. At Koenig|Dunne, we’ve long been at the forefront of advocating for LGBTQ+ couples and families. We understand the nuances that may come with dissolving a partnership—especially in a
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Mediation vs. Going to Court: A Realistic Cost Comparison

When facing a legal dispute, it’s natural to picture the courtroom: lawyers at the ready, a judge presiding, and the tension of a formal process. But what many people don’t realize is that this path often comes with a hefty emotional and financial price tag. Court cases can drag on for months or even years, with layers of legal fees, time off work, and the mental strain of public proceedings. The structure can feel overwhelming—and for some, unsustainable. Mediation offers a different route. It’s typically quicker, more collaborative, and less financially draining than traditional litigation. Instead of being locked in
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Koenig|Dunne Expands Divorce and Family Law Services into Iowa

At Koenig|Dunne, we believe that every family deserves compassionate, skilled legal support—no matter which side of the river they live on. That’s why we’re excited to share some big news: our firm is expanding our divorce and family law services into Western Iowa. Attorney Kelsey Deabler brings over decade of experience practicing family law in Iowa. Kelsey has a deep understanding of Iowa courts and a heartfelt commitment to helping families through some of life’s most difficult transitions. Her approach aligns perfectly with our goals to serve our clients: to provide clear guidance, unwavering support, and smart solutions during times
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Mediation Mondays: What to Do When Kids Are Involved

Talking to Your Children About DivorceDivorce is a life-changing event not just for parents, but especially for children. It’s important to speak with your kids in an age-appropriate, honest, and compassionate way. Let them know that the divorce is not their fault, and avoid putting them in the middle of adult issues. Children need reassurance that they are still loved and supported by both parents, even if the family dynamic is changing. Starting this conversation with empathy and clarity helps ease fear and confusion. How Mediation Helps Center the ChildMediation provides a structured and neutral environment where parents can focus
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Mediation Mondays: What Happens After Mediation?

Mediation can be a relief—it means you’ve reached a mutual agreement and avoided a lengthy court battle. But once the session ends, many clients ask, “What now?” The next step is finalizing the paperwork. Depending on your situation, this might include a Memorandum of Understanding (MOU), Parenting Plan, or a formal settlement agreement. These documents should accurately reflect what was agreed upon in mediation, and it’s often wise to have them reviewed—or drafted—by an attorney to ensure they’re legally sound. Adjusting Agreements When Life Changes Even the best agreements might need tweaking over time. Life changes—like new jobs, relocations, or
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