Normal
After thousands of initial divorce consultations with men and women contemplating whether or not to move forward with a divorce, I find myself frequently questioning normal. People often reveal to me the intimate details of their married lives. They reveal how she lives upstairs, he lives downstairs. They reveal how they no longer talk to their spouses – at all. They reveal how they have been unhappy for years and years before making it to the chair across my desk. And I think “When did that become normal?” My parents just celebrated their 42nd wedding anniversary and for the last