Month: January 2026

January 2026

High Road

January 22, 2026 / Doing Divorce

The day of the custody trial arrived. Nervous and feigning politeness to the opposing lawyers, they sat parallel to each other at their respective counsel’s tables. Plaintiff and Defendant. Also known by two, 5 and 7 year old children, as Mom and Dad. Evidence Round #1: She testified that the children were adjusting fairly well since they had separated households. She said that their dad had become more involved in the last year and that was a good thing. She focused her testimony on her children rather than their rocky past. Evidence Round #2: He testified about his increased involvement

Why a Flat Fee Uncontested Divorce in Nebraska Could Be the Best Path Forward for Your Family

January 20, 2026 / Divorce Made Simple, Divorce Tips, Financial Support, Legal Process

Divorce is one of life’s most challenging transitions, but it does not have to be long, costly, or emotionally draining. If you and your spouse are on the same page and can agree on all the important issues, an uncontested divorce with a flat fee can offer clarity, control, and peace of mind as you move forward. What Makes an Uncontested Divorce Different? An uncontested divorce means both spouses agree on all key parts of their separation before filing with the court. This includes child custody, support, division of assets and debts, and alimony. Because there is no dispute, you

Universal Good

January 15, 2026 / Doing Divorce

“He is a well-known athlete. He came to every meeting with a complete entourage of bodyguards, accountants, and managers. I advised him that he would need to leave said entourage at home for the child support hearing in front of the judge. The day of the hearing, he arrived with his entourage and finally agreed to leave them in the hallway – out of the courtroom. I then eyed the diamond encrusted watch on his thick wrist. I told him he would need to take off the $75,000 watch if I was going to proceed with advocating for a lowered

Mediation Mondays: Reducing Emotional Burnout

January 12, 2026 / Divorce Made Simple, Mediation Mondays

Divorce is not just a legal process—it is an emotional marathon. By the time many people reach mediation, they are exhausted. Exhausted from constant decision-making, tense conversations, financial uncertainty, and the mental weight of a future that feels unclear. This experience, often called divorce fatigue, can make even simple choices feel overwhelming and can cause people to feel stuck, reactive, or emotionally drained. Divorce mediation offers a way to reduce that fatigue by shifting the focus from conflict to clarity. Rather than reliving past disagreements or preparing for courtroom battles, mediation centers on practical solutions and forward-looking decisions. The structured,

New Beginnings

January 8, 2026 / Doing Divorce

I love new beginnings. I delight in shaking the Etch-A-Sketch clear and starting over. I appreciate every month flipping the calendar to a fresh start. I enjoy crawling into bed when freshly laundered sheets await. I particularly enjoy the start of a new year when I spend days preparing pages of goals for the upcoming year. Well, a divorce can change that. During a divorce, every single layer of life is changed. And I mean – every. single. one. New beginnings are everywhere. Although in the middle of life-altering upheaval, they don’t feel like new beginnings – the just feel

Mediation Mondays: From Resolution to Resolution

January 5, 2026 / Divorce Made Simple, Divorce Tips, Mediation Mondays

The New Year often brings a renewed commitment to change. Many people resolve to communicate better, reduce conflict, and create stability for themselves and their families. Yet when a marriage is ending, unresolved conflict can make those goals feel out of reach. Lingering disagreements over parenting, finances, or the future can carry emotional weight into the new year. Divorce mediation offers a way to address these issues thoughtfully, allowing couples to begin this next chapter with intention rather than ongoing tension. Unlike adversarial divorce proceedings, mediation focuses on cooperation, respect, and problem-solving. It provides a structured environment where both parties