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Month: July 2025

July 2025

Mediation Mondays: Choosing Peace Over Power Struggles

When a relationship ends, emotions often run high and the temptation to “win” can take center stage. But in family law—especially when children are involved—winning is rarely as satisfying or sustainable as finding a peaceful resolution. Mediation offers a path that focuses not on beating the other person, but on building solutions that work for everyone. This shift in mindset—from power struggles to problem-solving—is especially valuable for co-parents. Mediation encourages both parties to communicate openly, focus on shared goals (like the well-being of their children), and avoid the prolonged conflict that litigation can often worsen. Instead of fueling resentment, it
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Our Family

“Angela? Party of Four.”  We waited patiently on the bench in the Chicago airport for our table at the crowded eatery during our layover to a short weekend vacation.  We watched and waited for the other Angela to get her table.  “Angela? Party of Four!”  The server tried again, annoyance seeping into her voice.  My eldest daughter said, “Mom I think she means us.”  I stood up and tentatively approached the counter, my two daughters behind me.  “I am Angela, but there are only three of us.”  “Follow me,” the server replied, setting down the extra menu and extra napkin
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Mediation Mondays: Why Mediation Works Better Than Court for Busy Professionals

For professionals juggling demanding schedules, deadlines, and responsibilities, the thought of adding a legal battle to the calendar can feel overwhelming. Traditional litigation often involves rigid court dates, prolonged timelines, and frequent interruptions to your workday. Mediation offers an alternative that respects your time, your wallet, and your need for efficiency. One of the greatest advantages of mediation is flexibility. Sessions can often be scheduled outside of traditional court hours, including evenings or virtual meetings. This means no scrambling to clear a full day to sit in a courthouse or missing critical moments at work. Mediation works on your time,
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Taking the Tennis Shoes

I encouraged her more times than I can count to collect all of the items from my house she would want or need for her trip to Mexico the following week with her dad.  The day she was leaving my house I ran through a mental checklist with her.  Swimsuit?  Check.  Sandals?  Check.  She gathered her bag of items and off she went.   A few days later – the day before her departure – I get the message.  “Mom, I forgot my tennis shoes at your house and I need them for the trip.  Can you bring them after work?”
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